Blueberry nights

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kac_uSP_pJY

It's been a long time, I planned to see this movie. I made a first attempt with my friend, but it turned out that it is not a  kind of movie you can watch while talking and laughing most of the time. Even though it isn't action movie, it really needs attention, not to miss any of the profound thoughts and observation... So now when I am sick, the opportunity to focus my attention came.

Watching Elizabeth working in bars, cassino, it reminded me times when I used to help my friend in a bar. It is so true that you meet so many people, listen to their stories. You participate in their lifes. It is not that they just come for a drink or to chat with friends. So often they come alone, spend hours in a bar. They need to talk. They usually need somebody who can listen. Do they feel lonely? Probably many of them yes. It is like a part of your job to give them opportunity to talk. Not always it i easy. Sometimes they get too drunk. Sometimes they become rude, agressive. Hovewer I really liked this job. It was actually one of the moments that made me realized that I need a job where I have contact with other people. Of course I wouldn't lke to spend my whole life working in a bar or restaurant. For some reason I do my studies. However it is still one of my dreams to open my own caffee one day  on the side of my regular job:)

"Recently I have been learning not to trust other people. All in vain." It is soooo true. I coudn't agree more. I am sure that most of people could say the same. So often we give too big credit of trust to others. Suddenly disappointment happens and what we think?  Of course "Never again the same mistake!" But in fact, we can't live without other people. We need each other, we need close relationships so we have to open ourselves and take the risk that in fact we might be hurt... Anyway, even though it sounds as paradox, after being hurt we become somehow stronger. We learn something and maybe we will suffer again, but probably it won't harmful to the same extent....

And just to conclude: "People are our mirrors. After each reflection we like ourselves even more."

Winter is back:)

So to my surprise winter came back to Denmark:) I feel like a child every time I see snow around me... And luckily it is different type of snow than in Rennes:) Here, at least it stays on the ground for some time. A bit like in Poland? :)

Few years ago I would think it is crazy to ride a bike in the middle of winter when everything is covered with "white duvet". But now I love it! And I love this type of cold days... Then I stay in the appartment, sit comfortably under the blanket, drink warm tea,  listen to chilling music and just enjoy this time.

Let's have a look through my window:

My balcoon and very "inviting" chair:) Just sit and enjoy!:)

And at least one element that brings back memories of spring in the middle of winter:

Flower on the window:) Now I really feel like at home:)

For the end of this post,  some music that perfectly fits for cold winter evenings:

Enjoy!:)

Starting next chapter...

Time flies like crazy. I have a feeling as if I have just arrived home before Christmas after two stressful days and nighs at the airport. I already got used to being a home and... time for new adventure. Denmark for the fourth time!

This country has something that keeps me coming back again and again:) As usually I took the bus to come here. 30 hours! Sounds crazy and imppossible to go through? Probably it is just a matter of getting used to. I dare to say that I like it... :) And it is not only because of practical reasons like taking bigger bags (by the way, journey after the journey I am trying to be more minimalistic, I learnt how to make proper selection, but still in the end I am surpirised howcome my bags are so heavy?!). It is also because when I have so many hours, I can slowly get used to changing views, cities, countries. It is not that rapid as with the plane when I take off and after 1,5 hours I am suddenly here. I prefer slowly when I am getting tired, falling asleep and this way preparing myself for something new.:)

And what's more, on the way I always either meet interesting people or discover nice places. This time, both of the options happened:) I met a vey nice girl travelling to Germany. I like this kind of meetng,  even though I know that I will never again see the person, but still it is interesting and always brings something fresh ;)

And about the place.: we stopped in the seriously amazing restaurant in Poland. Below I put some photos to proof "this amazing opinion":

How I felt about this place? Absolutely not willing to leave! So cosy, warm, charming and with the soul! Absolutely wonderful!